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In Which One Vows to Pursue Her Dreams – Even When Morons Tell Her She Can’t Have Them…

Easy-peasy, tart and sweet, totally summery
Easy-peasy, tart and sweet, totally summery – like my dreams

For the past few weeks, I’ve been waking up in the middle of the night from dreams wherein I’m living on a country estate in the heart of an orchard where peaches and almonds grow.  I am not sure what these dreams mean, though; all I know is that they are a source of hope and comfort for me at this point in my life when I feel burned out and lonely.

It has not helped that I have a colleague at work who, when asked a rhetorical question of whether or not I was being stupid for pursuing seemingly impossible hopes, told me point-blank that my dreams were worthless and that I should get used to the fact that I was worthless and doomed to live a pointless life, that I should give up my dreams of becoming a writer, that I should give up on marriage because I’m pushing 37 this year and no guy would want me, and that my dreams of moving abroad to work as a writer and/or open a cafe were pointless and impossible.  She said that I ought to be as practical as she was, that I should stick to the mundane.

Honestly, if I were to doom myself to that, I’d rather take poison.

I took the day off from work yesterday to clear my head.  My doctor worried about my burnout taking a turn for the worse at my last check-up, seeing how frustrated and weary I looked.  I went to Mass, went to confession to unburden myself of the heartaches that have been rankling my soul.  As I prayed, I wondered why people would go out of the way to dissuade others from following their dreams.  It is a cruel thing to dishearten those who have been working so hard for their dreams and it speaks very ill of a person’s attitude: women, especially, end up being referred to as b*tches or wicked witches for raining on other people’s parades.

When I went home, I made up my mind never to listen to people who tell me off for dreaming big or who tell me I’m being an idiot for wanting seemingly impossible things.  I don’t need that sort of negativity in my life at this point.  I will pursue my dreams and I know in the deepest recesses of my heart that I will attain them one way or another.  There is, of course, always hope.

I made a peach and almond float when I got home, capturing the aromas and tastes in my dreams.  It is something that brings back some measure of positivity in me.  I ate well of those soft peach slices, those wobbly cubes of almond jelly; savoring the nutty sweetness against the faintly tart fruit, the cold syrup.  It soothed me, cooled me off, and helped after I cried my eyes out just to feel better.

I will take my cue from Banana Yoshimoto: whatever happens, I will continue to flow through life – and nothing (and, most especially no one) will get in my way.

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Author:

Midge started her career in PR writing at seventeen when she began drafting documentaries for a government-run television station in the Philippines. Since then, she made a career in advertising and public relations which ended earlier this year. These days, she works for a corporate governance advocacy in Makati. Aside from what she does for a living and her poetry, she has turned her home kitchen into a personal culinary lab and is currently working on another novel.

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